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A Thought About Stereotypes

Several days ago, I read a review of Kevin Roose’s book The Unlikely Disciple by John Dobbs that so intrigued me that I had to go to Barnes & Noble the next day and get a copy. It’s an amazingly well-written book that captivates the reader in a number of different ways. What’s most intrigued me has been his concessions about stereotypes.

I am not going to go into the nature of Roose’s experiment. You can read John’s review to get the jist of it. Or you can watch the YouTube video below to get an idea about what the book’s about. But I will say that, insofar as I’ve read, Roose reveals an inherent danger in buying into certain traditional stereotypes. Sometimes things aren’t as we might expect, nor as they might seem. That’s the danger in making irrational judgments about people without considering the authenticity of a person. Formulating opinions of people based upon ethnic, gender, socio-economic and religious stereotypes is shallow, lazy and inconsiderate.

Jesus crushed the complex ethnic and religious stereotypes of both Jews and Samaritans by engaging a Samaritan woman at Jacob’s well (John 4) and telling a parable of a Samaritan who helped man, presumably a Jew, left for dead (Luke 10:25-37). He sought to change conceptions of how Kingdom people looked at others. Stereotyping disrespects others and leaves us in the dark about the reality of people.

If you are a person who gets no further with people than a silly stereotype, think about what you might be missing! You may miss out on the opportunity of affording one the “good news.” You may miss out on your own personal elucidation concerning people about whom you are misguided. Get to know people deeply. Try to understand where they’re coming from. If we do, we’ll be more effective as salt and light to the world (Matthew 5:13-16).

The Unlikely Disciple

Guest Post

Tisha and I have two special friends who’ve been through a lot the last couple of years. Both are finding God as their sources of strength and are finding hope for their futures. Isaul and Angelica Verdin are two incredible people with an equally incredible son, Noah.

I’ve told them both, Isaul on more than one occasion, that I attribute to them significant credit for my continuing in ministry. They have restored in me a confidence in people that I’d all but lost. I believe God worked through them to help me better understand his purposes for me.

I didn’t know this until yesterday, but Angelica is a writer. She sent a poem to Tisha and Tisha forwarded it to me. With Angelica’s permission, I am posting it here.

Doug

Finding my way back home

As I began my journey alone
The chill cut through my bone.

It’s been such a long time on this same path.
Lord when will you ease this wrath?

My body feels so cold
And my soul seems old.

How did I lose my way?
I don’t even know where my head should lay.

I stand on this road in the rain.
My heart is stained with pain.

As I stare at the crossroads that are near,
My destination seems unclear.

In this moment I pray for grace
So I can find a better place.

My choices led me here.
I can no longer fear.

I want to find my way back home
And no longer roam.

My soul craves to feel
Something that is real.

My heart is ready to be repaired
I was childish to not have ever before dared.

I am ready to surrender
To the Lord’s splendor.

Please take me back home.

Angelica Verdin

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