Archive - November, 2009

It Never Worked Before

Bovina Bulletin Board

Bovina Bulletin Board

In an effort to foster growth, the church has found itself resorting to various approaches and sundry tactics. These often generate sparks of interest and increased numbers, but the sparks seem short-lived. Too, authentic discipleship in Jesus is rarely a result. In a sense, I agree with those who cry, “It Never Worked Before,” especially, when we’re talking about unbiblical growth.

Jesus simply wasn’t about gimmickry. He worked relationally, fostering genuine relationships through discipleship. His approach was for long-term commitment, not short-lived numbers. The fact that he let the Rich Young Ruler walk away is proof. If in our appeal to the Way of Jesus we develop a resolve to approach people on Jesus’ terms, I believe we would never say, “It Never Worked Before.” The New Testament evidence simply won’t allow for it. It has worked, and I believe its something we need to get back to.

Most assuredly, especially with the general population, combativeness has never worked over compassion. There’s a time to take a stand and make a “defense” (Philippians 1:17), but we weren’t made to live in a defensive posture 24/7.  I’ve found in my own past that I’ve often closed doors before they were ever even opened. How self-defeating! That is something that never works. Listening doesn’t mean we cave, it means we care.

There are things that aren’t working for us, but our plea isn’t the problem. Our plea is the rallying cry of Jesus. What I’ve had to do is seek His love to replace mine, so that the plea can be practiced as well as proclaimed. That is something, truly, that will work!

Wayfaring Strangers

IMG00062It was the first time I’d ever invited someone I didn’t know into my home to stay the night. In the past, I would never have done such a thing. Too foolish. Way too foolish in my book. But one day, a homeless man walking from Oklahoma to Fort Worth and I crossed paths that forever changed me. Not long thereafter, I found my mind centering and redirecting itself, seemingly all of the time mind you, on Hebrews 13:2. For whatever reason, I haven’t been the same since. I’ve got no desire whatsoever to stereotype people anymore. In the end, I believe it to be the working of God in my life in one of the most concrete ways I’ve ever experienced. It’s God’s gift.

So when I got an email from Jon Riddle, a brother in Dimmit, TX whom I’ve never met, only spoken to on the phone once, informing me of a young man named Colin Morrison who was walking, yes, walking from Maine to California, I was instantly intrigued. I was told he would be arriving in Clovis on Wednesday afternoon. Sure enough, at 3 pm he walked into the church building. He was greeted by our secretary. Curious, I believe she asked, “Can we help you?” Colin’s response, if my memory is correct, was, “I’m looking for the preacher. I forgot his name though.”

My door was open, so I could see Delores speaking with someone in our greeting area outside the offices. I assumed it was Colin, so I walked out to meet him. We went back to my office, and though wearied from his journey, he told me what he was doing. In May, Colin hopped a bus from Ohio, where he grew up, to Portland, Maine. He left Portland and began walking. On October 28th, he was with me in Clovis, NM.

He stayed the night with us that Wednesday night. He had dinner with us. He went to bible class with us as well.

There’s an amazing aspect to this story that is particularly fitting here. Colin has coordinated his travels so that he is always in a town on Sundays and Wednesdays. He has missed worship services with a local Church of Christ only three times since he began walking, and that wasn’t because he didn’t get to a congregation. He was there, but the congregation, for whatever reason, wasn’t gathering. But he was still there. That’s impressive!

My kids loved Colin. He played Wii with them. He wrestled with Reese. It was like he was family. But wait a minute, he actually was. He was a brother in Christ, doing an unbelievable thing, all because he could. The next day, we had a great lunch together at Fat Boys BBQ. He spent time with me at the office, as he mapped out his journey through the rest of New Mexico. Tisha’s family was coming in that Thursday to spend the weekend with us, so we put Colin in a local hotel room for Thursday evening. The next morning, he resumed his adventure.

Colin has been chronicling his adventure on his blog. I encourage you to read about him. Post a comment to encourage him. Colin is an amazing young man, and my family was fortunate to be able to meet him. Most importantly, it was a wonderful opportunity for us to be able to live out Hebrews 13:2.

Colin, you are in our prayers my friend. Thank you for gracing us with your presence.

Let the Preacher Do It!

Bovina Bulletin Board

Bovina Bulletin Board

An inherent danger in having a located minister is that it can create a culture where the church believes the preacher is “hired” to do all the work. Given our love for and adherence to scripture, I believe we know this isn’t correct. But people will say and do irrational things under the weight of guilt. Guilt is, by the way, what tends to propel people to utter such an absurd statement.

As noted last week, discipleship is about all of us. Your commitment to Christ and the discipleship process, of necessity, thrusts you into the ministry mix. We are all, by reason of our commitment to Christ, called into the service of ministry.

The gathered church of Jerusalem quickly became the scattered church into the world. The apostles, interestingly enough, served in Jerusalem while the obedient to Christ launched into mission (Acts 8:1-4). Notice how the early church didn’t respond to Truth, then say, “Let the Apostles do it!” No, they thrust themselves directly into the mission of God.

The Roman church/churches had their share of issues (Romans 2:1ff; ch. 14-15), but apparently one of them wasn’t placing the ministry platter before just one or two people. After commending Phoebe, a “servant” at Cenchreae (Romans 16:1-2) to the Roman church, Paul sends greeting to a number Christians whose labor for the Lord was a labor of love (Romans 16:3-15). These were Christians who were making impacts however possible.

Churches that struggle are the ones whose members show up, but sit back and do nothing. Churches that struggle are the ones whose members want someone else to do what they themselves were designed to do. Churches that struggle are the ones comprised of members who say, “Let the preacher do it!”

Master Leaders – Tyndale Book Review

Master Leaders by George Barna

Master Leaders by George Barna

The Tyndale Media Center has graciously offered me the opportunity to serve as one of their blog reviewers. Tyndale House Publishers sent me, as my first review, a copy of George Barna’s, Master Leaders.

George Barna is president of The Barna Group. In my opinion, he’s the foremost leader in the field of Christian statistics. He is the author of a number of renowned books. Master Leaders is no less the same.

Barna, a leader himself in the field of leadership, engaged some of the best minds in the leadership field, to write a book about what he gleaned important from these Master Leaders. These were proven men in their respective arenas of work- head football coaches, ministers, CEO, and etc.- all successful and respected by many.

The beauty of the book, in part, lies in how Barna writes it. He tells a story, as if he were the MC (Master of Ceremonies) of a leadership conference that brought together these Master Leaders into one collective forum. Barna communicates the story from the vantage point of sitting in the green room, eating, drinking coffee, and  attentively listening for nuggets to be dropped by each one. It is a masterful piece of work.

Each chapter addresses an essential aspect of Leadership. Each chapter begins by creating a certain tone, and then Barna rolls with a finely crafted group discussion of each chapter theme. My favorite chapters were 4, 5 and 15.

In chapter 4, he deals with how leaders create cultures. Quoting John Kotter, professor of leadership at the Harvard Business School, Barna writes,

Most companies don’t have perfect cultures, and leaders do need to work at that. But instinctively, they usually do. It starts with modeling what’s needed and then getting other people to do that, even if it’s counter-cultural. The way culture develops is that a group of people does something in a certain way and it works. And if it works over a sufficiently long period of time, it seeps into the bloodstream of the organism. They don’t do anything, it just happens. So what  great leaders do is just that. If the culture isn’t right, they get the group to act differently, get positive results, and if they just keep doing it for a while, it will start to seep into the bloodstream and replace the old stuff.

Healthy, organizational cultures are created “top-down” and “naturally.” They aren’t forced. They are born out of natural leadership.

In chapter 5, Barna develops the thoughts of his Master Leaders with regards to leadership development. Good leaders don’t find other leaders; good leaders develop them. Barna communicates a Ken Blanchard story about Henry Blackaby. Blackaby, in giving his opinion of the StrengthFinder process, said of it,

It’s an interesting theory. It just not sound biblically. You name one person whom the Lord called who was qualified. They all complained, whether it was Abraham or Moses or Mary. The Lord doesn’t call the qualified, the Lord qualifies the called.

A statement such as this resonates with minister types. I am a minister, and I feel so inadequate and unworthy. It’s not bad, either; it makes me normal. God develops leaders, and the kinds of leaders he desires aren’t naturally born, they’re naturally groomed.

As the “conference” begins to wind down, in chapter 15, Barna sets his sights on, what to me, is one of the most crucial question concerning leadership: How do leaders respond to the pressures and criticism they face?

Lou Holtz, the successful coaching icon of Notre Dame, found little success at South Carolina. In his first year, the Gamecocks were 0-11. They didn’t win a single game.

The question you have to ask yourself is, Am I willing to endure the difficulties in leadership in order to be successful, or am I going to give in to the negativity and the mediocrity that everybody comes to expect from losers?

Holtz understood what Tony Dungy clearly expressed, “Pressure goes with the territory.” Barna’s final paragraph, itself, is priceless.

Our discussion reminded me that nothing worth creating comes without paying a price. For a leader, part of the price is enduring the emotional roller coaster of being on the receiving end of complaints and challenges, and the physical hardship of feeling the pressure to live up to expectations, even if it’s only your own. You have to believe in the vision and in your ability to see it become a reality to turn your critics into fans and to relieve the pressure by performing up to standards.

I’ve found that leadership books can be dry, but such wasn’t the case for this one. The crafted messages of Master Leaders are told in such a way as to cause the reader to believe that it all happened that way. That’s powerful storytelling that resonates for the long term.

It’s Not My Job

Last week I wrote about the Bovina church’s bulletin board. If you remember, there was a devilish creature lecturing a set of bullet points on how to ensure a church doesn’t grow. The devil’s first bullet point was: “It’s not my job.”

First, let’s remember that church growth is a result, not a pursuit. God provides the increase (1 Corinthians 3:6), not us. He simply uses us to facilitate it. So, in a sense, it’s true: “It’s not my job.” Moreover, a “job” is probably not the best way to view one’s service to God to begin with.

Our commission is towards discipleship (Matthew 28:18-20). We accomplish this by living like Jesus, our Master Teacher, and teaching others to do the same. Discipleship is a heavenly mentoring program. Such was how Jesus’ approach, and such is our great calling. We sow the seed of the Living Word, water it, but God is the one responsible for the growth.

This being said, every disciple is called to a radical discipleship. No one is exempt. Disciples, by nature, make other disciples. Not all have the same gifts, but each of us are called to live out the Way of Jesus and teach others to do the same. To claim a disciple’s identity, yet not embrace the commission, is to deny the identity. It shows no love for Christ or for genuine disciples, yet love is the litmus test for discipleship (John 13:35).

Genuine discipleship produces natural growth, God derived growth; it doesn’t force it. Jesus adds to his church, not us (Acts 2:47). Our calling isn’t to grow the church, it’s to be the church. When the church is the church, the body grows and develops, naturally, by design (Ephesians 4:1-16). No, your job isn’t to grow the church, but your calling is to be loving channels through whom God works to expand his kingdom on the earth!

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