Bovina Bulletin Board
I believe it’s important that followers of Christ be concerned with not being offensive to people as they live out their faith. Unnecessary barriers simply do not help. But I also believe Christians can profess the gospel in a “non-offensive” way, yet people still get offended. More often than not, though, those who refuse to profess the Truth lest they offend another are simply deceiving themselves. Generally, fear is responsible for this excuse.
We simply cannot please everyone. At times our efforts are genuinely offensive and I don’t think Jesus is pleased when they are, especially, when we are dealing with delicate souls. How Jesus dealt with the religious “know-it-alls” of his day- the Pharisees, Sadducees, and etc.- shows us that sometimes people need to have their worlds rocked. But he didn’t treat the woman in John 8 like he did outspoken religious hypocrites. They needed what she didn’t!
Consequently, there are those looking to be offended. They are critical of anybody and anything. Nothing can please them.
Still others stumble at the mere fact that what’s being said or done doesn’t jibe with their preconceived notions about things. Such was actually the case with John the Baptist.
John’s depiction of the Messiah in Matthew 3:12 didn’t necessarily reflect how he actually came. In fact, Isaiah 42:1-2 suggested that the Messiah would come in a gentle fashion, not heaving a winnowing fork. Jesus himself told Nicodemus, “God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him” (John 3:17). So when John sends word to Jesus inquiring as to whether or not he was truly the Messiah or should they wait for another (Luke 7:20), Jesus tells John’s messengers to inform John of what he’d been doing. But the last thing he told them to mention to John was, “Blessed is the man who does not fall away on account of me” (v. 23). Numerous translations render “fall away” as “offended.” What did Jesus do to cause John to question and become offended? He simply didn’t live up to John’s expectations.
Some people are going to be offended whether it’s justified or not. Let us make sure we do not give the grounds to be offended.
But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. 1 Peter 3:15-16.
