Transitions

The last two months have been immensely intense, terribly frustrating, and yet incredibly enlightening. Uprooting a family from one state to another, selling a house for which we took a horrible hit, having to say “See ya later” (we refused to use the word “goodbye” if at all possible) to people we love tremendously, and struggling to overcome sleep deprivation from an experience I wanted to forget have made transitioning into a new work not the most pleasant experience in the world. But now that we’ve turned the corner on the things listed above, things are considerably better.

Transitions are a fact of life for us all. Some are easier than others to endure. The transition from junior high to high school is significantly less taxing than the transition from high school to college. The transition from high school to college pales in comparison to that of single life to married life. All transitions carry varying degrees of adaptive difficulties.

I think it providential that not long before I would face what has been my toughest transition to date, I’d been given a number of different books to help along the way. One such book was William Bridges’s Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes. How fitting!

All of this has put a number of different things into perspective for me.

• God’s presence no longer seems afar, nor should it (Acts 17:27-28).
• I am definitely attuned to God’s opening of doors for his servants (Revelation 3:8).
• Family must be forged with love, patience, and endurance.
• Friends are indeed precious!